Heel cancer how the sufferer say true words

When the close relatives suddenly suffer from cancer, should tell the sufferer this bad news?A lot of family members worry after knowing that they suffer from terminal disease, the close relatives have the viewpoint to be judged "death penalty".But fulfillment proves, many cancer sufferers because the mental state regulates adequacy, the regular mindset accepts a treatment but finally win a disease evil.Contrary, some sufferers with unsteady and demoralized mental characters then the treatment of very difficult match doctor, the opportunity for recovering also extremely minute.
How notifies a true condition to the sufferer, and adjust the good sufferer's emotion, is cancer under medical treatment directly relation treatment effect is go to save life of a key factor.According to long term of clinical experience, I mainly attain to vary from person to person, differentiation treat, pay attention to strategy.
Vary from person to person, the differentiation treat and judge it according to the patient's cultural layer the acceptance ability of the mental character, and adopt a different way respectively.Generally had better conceal a condition to the lower sufferer of cultural layer, adopt the method for"choose the easier way".For example:Say lung cancer into"pneumonia", "tuberculosis", say liver cancer into"cirrhosis".As far as possible avoid a sufferer causing emotion low to fall because of"know what happened", lose to continue the confidence for curing, but want to make the patient feel that having is healing of possibility, sets up to beg rare confidence, actively match with the doctor's treatment.Several years of clinical fulfillment proves that want ～only patient mood delectation, contribute to a treatment.But for those condition heavier sufferer, there is really no healing hope, only have the years finally near the treatment defer.To this patient, if concealed a condition to them in the beginning, along with the aggravating of condition, they will also feel by themselves, on the contrary will even produce disaffection to the treatment to the treatment creation of the hospital doubt, this bad emotion will be more disadvantageous to their treatments.Is that the treatment is early to this best way for patient if actually and mutually tells, just probably make they calmly face the realities, alleviate to die of fear, finally and leisurely leave.
Pay attention to while saying true state of matter to the sufferer of cancer strategy, avoid straightforwards, should also notice confidence inning and method.Becoming more optimistic to some personalities the sufferer can sound out sexual confabulation first and let the sufferer know a little of it to own condition, after again with necessity of medical science knowledge, mental knowledge with of communication.If some persons mention "chemotherapy", will produce to biggest fear mental state, frightened will appear disgusted, vomit, take off hair etc. side effect.Meet this circumstance, can explain to the patient, tell them along with the development of medical science, the chemotherapy medicine is developing toward the direction of "efficiently low poison" and make the side effect of chemotherapy declined to lowest but effect again had better.In addition, at tell a patient the condition of in the meantime, must make the patient know, his disease isn't the worst and have already cured of a hope.The patient sets free on the spirit once gotting rid of to fear and then canning calmly face will make a machine body of the immune system betterly develop an anti-cancer function.
In the clinical work, many mental states are healthy of the cancer patient's acceptance to the bad news ability far have to be strong than what people anticipated.See, to great majority sufferer come to say, tell of the true state of matter be still necessary.At appropriate of time, tell the sufferer the true state of matter in appropriate way, be advantageous to a curing of cancer patient and recover from illness.